Honestly speaking, can you believe we have reached the 51 pages already? That's just so WOW!
Alright, back to the topic again. Everyone play differently, so there's no right or wrong. Just play however you like. Remember it's YOU playing your game and not someone else. So don't bother if someone threaten to delete you or something. Press the "Remove" button if that neighbor of yours get on your nerves.
And I love being the silent ****er, press the "Remove" button and poof... that annoying neighbor of yours gone. Problem solved.