I've gotten to realise and not care why someone deletes me anymore (unless it's by a favourited neighbour which luckily never happens ) - but as it's subjective, and they had reasoning of there own to do so.
Anyway. I just got an invite on my kappy bakery from a random player (fair, it happens) they delete me after I accept the invite.
And go out to add my "better" looking bakery.
I actually just noticed I got an invite from the same person on my other bakery today. And I do know it was way after the fact of getting deleted on my kappy bakery.
I don't mind if I get deleted over my neighbour-ship anymore, In fact that's all I hope someone would delete me for.
Not over my bakery, unless it painful to your eyes (which I get) though it doesn't feel great getting deleted on my K333 bakery but then added on my other one - right-thereafter.
If you don't want to be neighbours on both bakeries, that's fine. But to go out of ones way to add my other bakery, after I get deleted on my other one, makes no sense to me. Especially when I have no links, other than by forum, that connects me to this other bakery.
Anyway. I am now redesigning my K333 bakery, and I hope people will enjoy it a bit better. And maybe I won't get deleted as soon as I accept the invite.
I know I shouldn't listen to the comments or slight subtlety from people (other players)
I got told my bakery made someone feel "dizzy" completely by a random stranger on the game, fine it happens, but it would be easier and faster getting out of my bakery than making a comment regarding it.
I have had bakeries that made my eyes hurt, but I am quick to get out of it, not linger and write a comment? Let alone a comment like that.
I've also gotten another comment, but not as hurtful.
I don't know but lately I've been hurt by it, and yet I used to enjoy the way my bakery looked (and I still should - especially when I'm the one dumping my wallet (real money) into it, not them) but I don't like my bakery anymore I've stayed away from the game lately because of this.
I know I shouldn't let this bother me, but it does.
If anyone reads this, or at least the end bit, how do you personally deal with it? Any tip(s) advice, or stuff of the sorts?
Please only offer advice if you've dealt with it yourself.
I've kinda? Dealt with a similar problem in the past, though it was on Restaurant Story, but it has a bit of similar problems, I feel.
Well I got threatened with deletion a few years ago because I wanted to change my Halloween restaurant to a Summer one, keep in mind it wasn't Halloween at the time my restaurant was, but I got threatened with deletion because I wanted to change my theme. In fact, I kept my Halloween restaurant just because I was discouraged. I did happen to delete this person, but the fact of it is, I still kept my Halloween restaurant - even though I really didn't want to.
But it's gotten to the point, I'm trying to please others with my kappy bakery, and not myself anymore.
I've almost gotten to the point, of just moving all my loyal neighbours over there, because I feel like they'd enjoy the look better. That, and I feel like the rude comments or "slight subtlety" will stop. Because I've yet to deal any of that over there.
But as I was also saying, it's just gotten to the point I'm not even getting on my kappy bakery anymore. And it's not because of my "loss of interest" it's because of everything that's happened over there
One of my favourite neighbours, has said something along the lines of "hope you and your family are ok" while family could be better (health and pregnancy wise) my absence has been more so because of what has been said or happened on the game. I am too ashamed to tell them that. But I do also owe my neighbours and explanation, but it's just too embarrassing for me to admit this directly to them.