Wow...i don't know if we are neighbours but I would hate to know that someone is losing sleep because they are trying to send me a gift at 2 am!
Oh I soooooo agree. Lol. I remember how hard it was to get decent neighbours when i first started out, so I'll add lower level players sometimes. But if they consistently send croissants (and i especially loathe the croissant gift for some reason. Lol) I just quietly delete them and move on.